What are Martial Arts
Various Martial Arts styles
Are Martial Arts right for your child?
Who can participate?
Choosing a Martial Arts school
Price of instruction
Important considerations
What are Martial Arts?
If it's good enough for the Power Rangers and Teenage
Mutant Ninja Turtles, it should be good enough for your kid
- right? Truth be told martial arts - a collective
term for a grouping of fighting disciplines from the Orient
- can not only provide your child with an outlet for excess
energy, but the ability to be self-confident in his or her own
skills, a healthy respect for others, and the ability to protect
themselves.
Most of the Martial Arts systems taught today are methods of
self-defense and, ultimately, emphasize avoiding conflict through
self-control, self-discipline and improving self-confidence.
"Many kids think they'll learn to kick butt and that their
instructor will help them," says Dakin Burdick, a Bloomington,
IN, instructor who holds a black belt in Tae kwon do. "But I
teach kids that the most important thing they'll learn is
respect" for themselves and others.
Various Martial Arts styles
The martial arts comprise a huge range of styles and systems,
and the list grows longer each year as new styles are developed.
The styles come from Korea, Japan and China and the name of each
martial art has a meaning that is important to its history and
objectives. All of the styles reinforce the same mind-body
disciplines, so when choosing the best one for your child, you
must consider the physical aspects of each style.
The six categories generally considered best for children are
Tae kwon do, Jujitsu, Judo, Aikido, Karate and Kung Fu.
Tae kwon do comes from Korea and means "the way of the
foot and fist." This style relies heavily on striking and fancy
footwork to keep opponents at a distance and the form is famous
for its high kicks. Tae kwon do became Korea's national sport in
1955 and is now the world's most popular martial art. If your
child has a competitive nature, Tae kwon do may be the sport you
are looking for.
Jujitsu comes from Japan and means "compliant art." A
well-rounded style that features lots of sparring and weapons
training, jujitsu is one of the oldest styles of martial
arts.
Aikido comes from Japan and means "way of harmony."
This style uses an attacker's movements against him. This deeply
spiritual style strives to teach how to disable an attacker
without causing him serious injury. Steven Segal, an aikido
practitioner and teacher, shows how personal energy can be used
for defense in Under Siege and his other movies.
Judo comes from Japan and means "gentle way." A softer
form of jujitsu developed late last century, judo emphasizes
wrestling-type moves and is considered one of the safest styles
for kids. Because its founder was also a prominent educator, judo
places great emphasis on moral and mental development. Judo's
focus is on competition. Much like wrestling, points are assigned
to competitors based on the successful execution of techniques,
pins and opponent control. Judo is physical. Your son or daughter
should like to take up judo.
Karate comes from Okinawa, Japan, and means "empty
hand." With a lot of punching, blocking, throwing and kicking,
karate stresses defensive moves. Karate also uses weapons.
Kung Fu comes from China and means "well done." While
kung fu is a generic term for hundreds of Chinese fighting arts
and encompasses
Are Martial Arts right for your child?
- An alternative to team sports: There are many
advantages to participating in martial arts over team sports such
as soccer and baseball. If you have a child who does not enjoy
team-related activities, martial arts provide a way for your
little competitor to learn not only the physical skills of
athletics but the mental skills such as concentration and
memory.
- Safer than other activities: Study after study has
shown that participation in a well-run martial arts school is far
safer than nearly any other physical activity your child is
likely involved in, including sports such as soccer. "Kids are
always showing up for class with injuries they've gotten in
another sport," says Chris Goedecke, author of "Smart Moves: A
Kids' Guide to self-defense" (Simon and Schuster Children's,
1995) and a karate black belt. "I tell them, `You ought stick to
something safe --like karate.'"
- Confidence builders: Some kids begin martial arts with
self-confidence problems, because they are small or fragile or
being bullied, and they quickly begin to look and feel more
confident. "Martial arts training can even be an introduction to
good manners.
- Working out the aggression: Another advantage of the
martial arts disciplines, according to instructors, is that they
discourage aggressive behavior outside of class. Since children
who "bully" others often have self-esteem issues, the martial
arts helps to strengthen self-confidence.
Who can participate?
Age: Some say a child is never too young to begin a
martial arts program. Some schools offer programs for children as
young as four. These classes offer basics in coordination, motor
skills and following directions. For most kids, it's probably
best to wait until they are at least seven before buying them
that first uniform. "If a younger child wants to try a martial
art, fine," says John Donohue, a college vice president in
Buffalo, N.Y., who is also a Martial Arts author and a black
belt. "But what you'll probably end up with is an expensive pair
of pajamas. Their attention span simply isn't long enough. Can
your child even stand on one foot? If not, he or she isn't
ready."
Special needs: In addition, if your child has been
diagnosed or is suspected of having Attention Deficit
Disorder,you may way to consider a martial arts class.
The martial arts provide an opportunity to strengthen all of your
child's body parts - including the important one
housed up in the skull. Using mind-body disciplines, martial arts
seem to address the short attention spans of today's children,
even those diagnosed with ADHD. "Karate school is so structured
that it can be a stabilizing influence on ADHD kids--sometimes
dramatically so," explained Elisa Hendrey, a third-degree black
belt in shotokan karate who teaches on Long Island, N.Y..
Gender: Since martial arts emphasize technique over
power, the playing field is more level when compared to many
other sports according to some experts.
Choosing a Martial Arts school
How do you choose the Martial Arts school that's right
for your child? Like anything else, you do your homework, ask
questions and visit schools convenient to your home until you
find one that offers the right program at the right time and
price. Once you've narrowed it down to these basics, you
have the most important thing to consider.
How comfortable you feel entrusting your child to the
instructors? Learn about their qualifications. Talk to other
parents of the school's students and ask plenty of
questions. Visit schools and watch classes. Notice how the
instructors act with the children. You are looking for
instructors with plenty of patience. Do the other students pay
attention when he or she speaks? Does the instructor seem to have
control over the group? Ask how the school addresses
self-control, conflict resolution and issues of respect with the
children.
Next, you want to make sure that the school offers the proper
space. Safety, of course, is key. The physical space and
equipment -- mirrors, kick bags and sparring gear -- should be
clean and well maintained. The classroom should have a smooth,
flat floor, with adequate padding for kids.
Price of Instruction
Rarely do martial arts schools advertise their price of
instruction in the phone book. Prices could be determined on a
monthly basis, over several months, or by how often you train
each week. In some cases, the price is negotiable depending on
how many people will be taking classes with you (family package
deals, for example).
There are instructors who charge as little as $50 dollars a
month for instruction, and there are those who garner $50 or more
for a single one-hour session. It is up to you to determine what
you feel is a fair and manageable price for instruction. After
some research, you will know who is asking too much.
Important considerations
As with anything else in this life, "let the buyer beware."
Since you are doing your homework, consider these points when
making a decision about choosing martial arts for your child:
- Instructor/school credentials: One trip
to the local sports equipment store and you will find that
it's very easy to purchase a "black belt." When you
consider that, you see how important it is to check the
credentials of the instructors at your school. Ask which martial
arts association each instructor belongs to and where it is
headquartered, then call the organization and verify the
instructor's rank and background.
- While it's absolutely true that practicing a martial
art can tame even the most aggressive child, it's important
to note that some schools, however, are less effective than
others at emphasizing the importance of self-discipline and
respect for your opponent, so parents should always talk to
potential instructors and observe classes to see how aggression
is handled.
- Lastly, as in any sport, the most dangerous children are the
ones who haven't learned to control their own bodies and
does't know the rules yet. These things will come with
instruction, but you should make sure that kids wear padding and
instructors are closely supervising whenever kids are
sparring.